Showing posts with label Death. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Death. Show all posts

Friday, March 7, 2014

Annabelle's Day of Sorrow: Trusting in God's Plan

Annabelle's Day of Sorrow: Trusting in God's Plan by Kaye E. DeMarr is a touching story inspired by an event that happened on her farm many years ago.

Reading stories about loss, especially the loss of a child, is always very hard. Yet this story takes a very difficult subject (death) and makes it easier to approach with children because of characters used (cows).

In the story, Annabelle, a mother cow, experiences the loss of her calf due to a birth defect. Although she feels the pain and sorrow because of her loss, she also feels the Lord's presence with her. She struggles with the same feelings we struggle with during times of loss, but the encouragement given to her by a wise, old cow helps her to open her heart to what God has in store for her future. By the end of the story, Annabelle fully experiences God's grace.

I think this is an excellent book to use with children (or even parents) who have or will be experiencing a loss. I do not know if this book should be used with younger children who have not experienced a loss, because they may not be ready for it.

I began reading this book with my daughter. I had to stop and read the rest on my own. I lost my mother a few years ago, so I was able to relate to the grief, sadness, and God's ultimate grace at the end of the story. Thankfully, my daughter has never had to face those feelings yet, so she wasn't ready for this book.
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What I Like: I love how the author ends the story. "Annabelle's day of sorrow has passed, a new day has dawned, and who knows what tomorrow will bring...." Although the loss of a loved one brings sadness, God is always faithful and will always bring us the grace we need to move forward.

What I Dislike: In a few places, quotations marks were misplaced. I though a different character was speaking when it was actually the same character continuing the conversation. This was not something that would be a deal breaker for me, but I could see it causing momentary confusion.
 
Overall Rating: Very good
 
Age Appeal: 8-12 years old

Publisher Info: AuthorHouse, 2013; ISBN:978-1-4817-5515-3 ; paperback,  28 pgs., $19.99


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Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Children's Bible Hour Seasons of Faith Series

Summer is a time of warm, lazy days, splashing in the pool, and the inevitable car trip.  Books on CD can pass the time for children and parents, after the scenery and "car bag" crafts have lost their appeal. The Children's Bible Hour Seasons of Faith series provides entertaining stories, biblical wisdom, excellent artwork, and a read-long CD. What better way to pass the time?

The books are narrated by "Uncle Charlie" and include a tone to tell listeners when to turn the page. Children will also enjoy listening as they work on Lego sets, crafts, or housecleaning, at home.
The Seasons of Faith books are categorized into seasons. "Spring" books deal with salvation and new life in Christ. "Summer" books deal with growing and bearing fruit as Christians. "Autumn" books address God's love in times of struggle and temptation. "Winter" books deal with grief, loss and God's comfort.

In the "Summer" book, Monkey Business, Austin and Brooke are learning about evolution in science class. They talk about what they learn with Gramps, who reminds them of the truth of the Bible.  The next day, they return home laughing about Austin's witty response to Mr. Davies. However, Gramps reminds them it would be a much better witness to Mr. Davies and their classmates if they studied the assigned material and were respectful, even as they hold fast to biblical truth.

The "Autumn" book, The Prize Cake deals with Tori's motivations and disappointments surrounding
a cake-baking contest. Her mom reminds her Christians should "Develop the gifts and skills God gave you to glorify Him," instead of making winning the most important thing. Tori also learns some important lessons about forgiveness from her mom and little brother.

Saying Farewell is the poignant story of twins Grace and Hannah, who enjoy each other despite their differences. When Grace is killed in a car accident, Hannah questions God's purposes. Her parents, instead of giving her pat answers, admit they are sad and don't understand, but reassure her with their trust in God's goodness.

The last page of each book walks children through the steps to become a Christian.

What I Like: These are beautiful 8" by 10" books. The bright watercolors and pastels have a painted look to them, and the children's faces are lifelike.

The books handle real-life issues with compassion and grace. The Bible is central to each story, but the authors weave biblical truth into each story in a seamless and natural way. Children will relate to the characters and their lives. My own children were drawn to the books and read them before I had a chance to look at them!

The CDs are well done, and my five-year-old loves having the chimes tell her when to turn the page. The stories are long enough to make it worth listening to the CD.

What I Dislike: I wish there were more diversity in the children shown.  They are adorable, but all white. Also, this isn't a dislike, but a caution. I couldn't get through reading Saying Farewell to myself without getting choked up, let alone reading it to my kids or listening to the CD.

Overall Rating: Excellent

Age Appeal: 5 and up, but do preview the "Winter" books
 
Publisher Info: CBH Ministries, 2010-2012; ISBN: 978-0-9825120-6-7 (The Prize Cake); Paperback, 32 pages, $10.00

 All three books are available for purchase here, through Children's Bible Hour Ministries. 
  
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Thursday, September 27, 2012

Kermie: A Story about Death, Dying and Hope

Kermie: A Story about Death, Dying and Hope was written by Dr. Christine Gillan Byrne. Told in first person from a child's point of view, the book tells the story of Kermie, a beloved dog. Kermie is old and sick and won't be with the family much longer. The text explains what the child's mother has said about Kermie and what the family is doing to prepare for his death. The child shares her feelings.

The book then transitions into a section about biblical stories of death: Jarius's daughter, Lazarus, and Jesus's Resurrection. The child finds hope in knowing that Kermie will get a new, healthy body and that she will see him again in Heaven one day.

Full-color photos of Kermie, the author's dog, and the family serve as visuals throughout the book. Traditional illustrations, as found in older children's Bibles, are provided in the section about the Bible stories.

Bonus materials include a note to parents, a guide to grief in young children, blank memory pages for readers to decorate, ideas for creating memories and how to say good-bye. A "Verses to Learn" page features quotes from Revelation 21:4 and Isaiah 25:8, 9. Readers are also encouraged to discover 1 Corinthians 15 and 1 Thessalonians 4:13--18.

What I Like: This book is very well written! It presents a gentle, loving tone. I think it would be tremendously helpful for children struggling to articulate their thoughts and feelings when facing such a situation. I especially like all the bonus material provided for parents and caregivers: the memory verses, guides to helping children deal with grief, and the memory pages.

What I Dislike: The book targets families dealing with the loss of a loved one or a pet, but I feel that is too broad a focus. It's a wonderful book for those facing a beloved pet's death, but feels inadequate for handling the death of a family member. I just don't see it as the same thing.

I understand the costs of self-publishing, but feel $16 is just too high for a 28-page paperback.

Overall Rating: Very Good.

Age Appeal: 8 and under

Publisher Info: Xlibris Corporation, 2011; ISBN: 1456836153; Paperback; 28 pgs., $15.99

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Special Info: This book and its author clearly assert that pets go to Heaven after they die. Not all denominations agree with this theology. If you or your church believes differently, you should consider the questions that may arise and any confusion that may be caused by conflicting doctrine.




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Thursday, November 24, 2011

Heaven, God's Promise for Me

“We wondered when our Granny died,/ Where did she really go?/ It’s lonely here without her,/ And we just miss her so!”

When someone dear passes away and little ones start asking questions about Heaven, where can a parent turn for help? Check out Heaven, God’s Promise for Me, by Anne Graham Lotz. Kid-friendly, whimsical pictures created by Laura J. Bryant depict children from a variety of ethnic backgrounds and animals of all kinds.

The story explores the promises God gives us about our eternal home. The book opens with a letter from Graham to parents, telling why she wrote the book and giving them some encouraging tips about how they can pass on their faith. Then the story begins. Written in rhyming verse, it follows a brother and sister as they pray for answers about Heaven, and then look for answers in the Bible. They discover that God not only has a great big house with many rooms, but that “Jesus, His Son, is preparing a place. With treasures from above--/ Our favorite foods and colors,/ And the special people we love…” Jesus will also wipe away our tears, and there will be no crying or pain or sickness or sadness or hunger!

The book goes on to describe the beauty of our Heavenly home. Finally, in the grand tradition of Billy Graham, daughter Anne Graham Lotz masterfully takes the tale to a poignant culmination by encouraging readers to put their trust in Jesus. In fact, after the story, the author includes a prayer kids can recite to ask Jesus into their hearts. The book also includes questions parents can use to help talk about Heaven (such as “Where is Heaven?” and “Will you be welcomed in Heaven? Why?”) and a helpful list of Scripture references used to build the foundation of the story.

What I Like: The book seems like a great tool to help guide children to understand eternity and how to put their faith in Christ. The inclusion of Scripture references provides both parent and child with a stepping stone to further explore the ideas presented in the story. I also LOVE the bright and appealing watercolor illustrations.

What I Dislike: Rhyming books are hard to write well. (In fact, out of the rhyming books I’ve read most recently, Crystal Bowman is one of the few authors who consistently gets the meter right.) In this book, the meter works some of the time, but sometimes it’s simply off. Because of that, when I read it out loud, I stumbled over a several verses. Still, the message and illustrations paired with the extra support (letter to parents, prayer, Scripture references) are strong enough to offset that flaw.

Overall Rating: Excellent

Age Appeal: Ages 4 and up.

Publisher Info: Zondervan, 2011; ISBN:978-0310716013; Hardcover, 40 PGS., $16.99

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Special Info: Anne Graham Lotz is the CEO of AnGeL Ministries. You can find out more information about this ministry at her website. She mainly writes books for adults. Some titles are The Magnificent Obsession: Embracing the God-Filled Life, Just Give Me Jesus, and Heaven: My Father’s House.


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Thursday, October 27, 2011

Orbit the Angel Cat



Sam the cat is very sick. He is too sick to sit with his siblings (Betty, John and Scott) by the window to see the snow. The siblings see another cat approach from a distance. Next thing they know, the new cat is in the house, cuddled up with Sam. The other cats want to know who the intruder is and why he is there. He says, “My name is Orbit and I’m here because Sam needs me…to help him remember love.” Spoiler alert: Sam passes away. But, he goes peacefully while remembering all the good things in his life.

Orbit the Angel Cat, written by Michael Joyce and Linda Max Collins is a metaphorical story about dealing with the loss of a loved one. In this instance, a cat family must deal with the loss of their sick sibling. Orbit, an angel cat, comes to Sam (the sick cat) to comfort him and “help him remember love.”

The illustrations by Linda Max Collins are simple and child-like and they work well with the text.

This verse, from Hebrews 13:2 is given as a reference at the end of the book: “Be not afraid to have strangers in your house. For some thereby have entertained angels unawares.”

What I Like: I like this different approach to talking about a difficult subject. Children should be able to identify with the characters

What I Dislike: I like the illustrations and the text, but I thought the layout was a bit boring. All of the illustrations are on the right-hand side of each two-page spread with the text on the left. There is no variation of this layout. It’s not a big issue, I just thought I’d point that out.

Overall Rating: Very good.

Age Appeal: No age group is given but I would say 4-8 would be the right age group.

Publisher Info: ISBN: 9781461055891; Paperback, $12.00

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Friday, July 8, 2011

The Battle for Andy

On Andy's seventeenth birthday, his parents are killed in a car accident. As an only child, he was close to his parents, and embraced their Christianity. However, when his non-believing aunt learns he is heir to over a million dollars, she becomes enthralled with the idea of becoming his guardian and showing him the folly of his faith. Little does she realize, God has other plans for Andy.

Written in the style of Frank Peretti's This Present Darkness, The Battle for Andy explores the supernatural struggle for Andy's allegiance, and ultimately, his soul. Ann Correll writes a captivating, real-life mystery, using a spiritual warfare framework. As soon as Andy's parents die, Satan sends his servants to try to turn Andy away from God. God is not taken by surprise, however, and sends His own angels to protect Andy.

The servants of Satan quickly learn they can use Aunt Margaret's greed to negatively influence Andy. Margaret will stop at nothing, even if it means harming her own father, her husband, and Andy. Through it all, Andy's grandpa and his youth pastor stay close to him, uphold him with prayer, and guide him in the right paths. Obviously, God's side wins, and Andy stays strong in his faith.

What I Like: I love Ann Correll's heart. She clearly has a heart for teens, and hopes they all will know Jesus and trust Him, no matter what happens in their lives. I also like the way she uses Scripture throughout the book. Andy, his grandpa, and his youth pastor all know their Bibles, and can apply the Word of God to everyday situations. Correll includes a chapter-by-chapter list of Scriptures at the end of the book.

The Battle for Andy is also a good reminder of Ephesians 6: 12: "For our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the . . .spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly high places." Correll clearly shows the power of prayer to defeat Satan's servants, and the wisdom of making good choices.

What I Dislike: I have a couple of concerns both with Correll's writing and theology. First, her grandmother's voice comes though in her writing. I don't mind this, but I am afraid teen boys won't get past the first chapter. Although she consistently speaks with love, she does sound a bit preachy and old-fashioned at times. Andy is seventeen, and is mature for his age, but still calls his grandfather "Papa." As I say, I don't mind Correll's voice, but I am not sure teens would read the whole book. Also, Andy and Margaret often call their fathers by their first names, which makes reading confusing. I had to go back and check who they were referring to more than once.

Secondly, Correll presents two theological issues I am not sure I agree with. She maintains God has no problem with Christians being wealthy, and uses Job and Abraham as examples. However, she never addresses Jesus' teachings that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.

She also shows Andy's grandfather counseling Andy to ask God for a "sign" in the manner of Gideon. I believe this was acceptable in Old Testament times. However, since God sent the Holy Spirit to indwell believers after Jesus died, we can rely on His leading, and no longer need to ask for tangible "signs."

Although both these issues are controversial, I wouldn't want teens reading the book to assume they will be wealthy if they do the right thing. I also wouldn't want readers to always rely on "signs" to discern God's will.

Overall Rating: Good

Age Appeal: Young Adult (14-21)

Publisher Info: Tate Publishing Enterprises, 2011; ISBN: 978-61739; Paperback, 194 pages, $15.99

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Friday, July 1, 2011

Shattered: A Daughter's Regret

Even though it is the second book in the "Secrets" series, Shattered: A Daughter's Regret by prolific author Melody Carlson, reads very much like a stand-alone novel. It centers around Cleo, a high school senior who makes one seemingly innocent rebellion, the consequences of which change her life forever.

As an only child, Cleo is a bit spoiled by her over-protective mother, much in contrast to Lola, Cleo's best friend, who is the oldest of three raised by a single mom. When Lola wins tickets from a radio show to a Christian concert, it seems the perfect plan for their last night together before Lola moves to far away San Francisco with her family. Of course, Cleo's mom won't let her go; it's not safe for two teenagers to drive alone into the city at night. But Cleo can't accept this. After her mom leaves for a friend's bachelorette party, the girls take mass transit to get into the city and to the concert. Lola believes Cleo's mom "okay"ed it and Cleo's mom believes the girls are having a slumber party. Aside from a dead cell phone battery, everything seems to be fine until the next morning.

Lola wakes Cleo for an early morning "good-bye." Moments later policemen knock on Cleo's door with news that her mother's body had been found just blocks from the concert. When Cleo checks her cell phone messages, her suspicions are confirmed. Her mother was in the wrong place at the wrong time because of her. After discovering Cleo's deception, Cleo's mom drove into the city to protect her, but met the hands of a murderer instead.

Grief and guilt combine to send Cleo into a downward spiral. Seeking to dull the pain, she takes some of her mother's old prescription medications. It dulls the ache and so she takes more. Slowly her habit becomes an addiction and soon she finds herself at the park spending her college savings to get a baggie of unknown, colorful pills from a shady drug dealer.

In the meantime, Cleo's aunt Kellie moves in to help her and her dad manage. Cleo struggles to balance that new arrangement with her secret self-medication, maintaining the lead role in her ballet recital and a budding relationship with her long-time crush at school. All while knowing she can never reveal to anyone -- not even Lola -- what role she played in her mother's death.

How long can she keep her drug habit a secret? Will she be able to quit on her own? And what role does God play in all of this? Will her father ever forgive her? Will she ever forgive herself?

What I Like: This book covers really heavy topics without being preachy. It clearly emphasizes the value of honesty and friendship (including support groups), but also highlights a beautiful balance between personal responsibility and God's grace. Forgiveness, a topic not often covered in YA literature is a pervasive theme. I really liked that. I like that the characters are fully developed. The whole book is wonderfully realistic without going crazy with unsavory details. Nicely done.

What I Dislike:
The text goes back and forth between first person present tense and first person past tense. I realize this is a storytelling tactic as old as the written word, but I found it annoying. More importantly, I wish the spiritual content had been stronger. It was there, but extremely subtle.

Overall Rating:
Very Good

Age Appeal:
Teen

Publisher Info:
NavPress, 2011; ISBN: 1600069495; Paperback; 208 pages; $14.99

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Special Info:
Parents should note that substance abuse is a main theme within this book. In addition to the illegal use of drugs, it also references the sale and purchase of illegal drugs. Themes discussed but not central include alcoholism, murder and suicide.

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Monday, January 17, 2011

Mainstream Author Highlight: Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games Trilogy

"Mainstream Author" highlights, as well as our "Mainstream" reviews are not necessarily recommendations for Christian families. Rather, as parents we recognize that many kids will read such books, with or without parental permission. Our goal is to help parents prepare for what their kids may read, offer insights into positive aspects of the books, and give tips on areas to talk to kids about. In addition, we recognize that sometimes "dark" books may be difficult to read, but can offer an excellent way for teens to think about the world we live in.

Suzanne Collins has written a powerful series detailing the horrors of war and violence and their effects on people and societies alike. The Hunger Games trilogy takes place in post-apocalyptic America, in the not-too-distant future. Each year, twenty-four children are chosen to participate in the "Hunger Games" a deadly form of Survivor. They are forced by the government to participate, in an effort to discourage rebellion. Each year, a new arena is created--some contain oceans and jungles, or live volcanoes, or poisonous food sources. The games are televised and watching is mandatory for all citizens. The games only end when one child is left alive.

When Katniss Everdeen and her friend Peeta Mellark are forced to participate, it changes their lives and their world forever. Their actions in the games set off sparks that engender chain reactions around the country. Soon, they must decide who their friends are and what side they are on. As war breaks out, their efforts to escape violence become more and more futile. Eventually they must choose to fight or face certain death.

These books contain disturbingly graphic scenes of violence, torture, and war, as well as futuristic mutated animals, bred to kill. There are also some romantic overtones in the books. Peeta has been in love with Katniss for as long as he can remember. She feels drawn to him, but is still loyal to her best friend and hunting partner, Gale. Katniss and Peeta share a bed often, for comfort and to ward off nightmares, but are not sexually intimate. There is a lot of kissing, but most of it is staged for the television audience.

Despite the disturbing themes and dark overtones, Collins' characters are people you like and care about. The more you read, the more invested in their future you become, and the harder it is to put the books down. Also, the books would be an excellent choice to begin discussions about war, violence, and post-traumatic stress syndrome. If you have time, I strongly recommend reading this series with the teens in your life. However, I would closely monitor the age and maturity level of your teens when allowing them to read the series.

For those of you who don't have time to read the books, but still want to discuss them with your teens, I've listed pros and cons surrounding specific issues, but this list does include plot spoilers.

ISSUE: Violence is rampant, both in the Hunger Games - where contestants must kill or be killed - and in the war, where people are shot, blown up and tortured.

PRO: Collins does nothing to glorify war or present it as a fun game. She also refuses to portray either characters or governments in black and white terms. She shows good people doing terrible things to survive, and neither the government in power nor the rebel forces are above killing children if it advances their cause. In this way she shows us the ambiguity of war. We also see, at the end of the day, soldiers on both sides of any conflict are simply people trying to survive.

CON: The images of violence and death are disturbing and graphic. Collins is descriptive, and I was in tears more than once while reading each of the three books.

ISSUE: While Collins never names it, many of her characters suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder.

PRO: This series could be extremely helpful for teens who either have PTSD or who have loved ones who are suffering with it. More and more American soldiers returning from the Middle East exhibit post-traumatic stress symptoms, and Collins does a good job showing us why.

CON: Many characters deal with PTSD through self-medicating with drugs and alcohol. Collins makes every effort to show characters lying in their own vomit, wasting away, and suffering because of their dependence on chemicals. Although realistic, few of Collins' characters learn any healthy coping skills.

ISSUE: Romantic situations are portrayed with a sensual tone.

PRO: Katniss' confusion about her feelings for her friend, Gale, and her fellow contestant Peeta, could help adults talk to teens about romance and physical intimacy. It is obvious kissing and sharing a bed, however staged or platonic, confuses Katniss even more.

CON: Katniss seems to rely on Gale or Peeta, but has a hard time standing on her own, or making choices without them.


What I Like About this Series: I like the way Collins unequivocally shows us how horrible violence and war are. Katniss and Peeta begin the games full of hope, but the series ends by presenting broken people with scars that will never go away.

I also like the way Collins refuses to write the predictable young adult novel with mostly happy endings. More often than not, I finished reading a chapter with a gasp or tears. In this way, Collins refuses to allow us to gloss over the horrible realities of war. These books left me thinking about their messages long after I finished reading the series.

What I Dislike: In the last chapter of book three, it feels as if Collins ran out of time or pages. She dismisses Gale with a sentence, and Peeta suddenly overcomes being psychologically programmed to kill Katniss. Collins subtly implies Katniss and Peeta consummate their relationship, and Katniss finally declares her love for him. However, these events happen too quickly, even though I was pleased the epilogue showed Peeta and Katniss with their children fifteen years later.

Age Appeal: Young Adult (14 and up), but I would say even older in many cases

Publisher Info: Scholastic, 2010; ISBN:978-0545265355; Hardcover (Box Set), 384-400 pages, $53.97

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Special Info: At the end of book three, we learn some of the victors of the Hunger Games were routinely forced to choose between selling their bodies for sexual use, or witnessing one of their loved ones die.

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Wednesday, December 8, 2010

When Someone Dies: Find Comfort in Jesus


When Someone Dies: Find Comfort in Jesus, written by Julie Stiegemeyer, is a guide for children on dealing with death.

When children, and adults, lose a loved one, they often feel lonely, confused, afraid or angry. The author touches on each of these issues and offers the assurance that Jesus knows and understands what they’re feeling. They can rest assured that Jesus loves them and is there for them.

The author also provides some ways to deal with grief. Children can pray for themselves and others; they can help someone who needs an extra hand; they can listen when those around them tell them about Jesus’ love; and they can wait for some of the hurt and pain to go away.

The illustrations, by David Erickson, done in muted colors, are very detailed, expressive, and child-friendly.

What I Like: Just about everything.

What I Dislike: There are no Bible verses or references given for the text. I think that would have been helpful, although the book is well-done without them.

Overall Rating: Very good.

Age Appeal: 4-8.

Publisher Info: Concordia Publishing House, 2010; ISBN: 9780758618887; Hardcover, $13.99.

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Special Info: Read our reviews of other books by Julie Stiegemeyer. Read our reviews of other books illustrated by David Erickson. Visit the author’s website.



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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

We Do Remember You

Written by Steve butler and illustrated by Grace Mayfield, We Do Remember You aims to help families grieving the death of an infant or child. Not only does it provide a picture book for families to read to surviving children filled with questions, it also offers ideas for tangible ways to act out their grief.

A group of children gather in Heaven. Some of the children died as babies and some as older children. One doesn't remember being born; she never met her family and never received a name. The story follows their discussion. One by one they share how their families on Earth remember them. Here are some of the ideas shared:
  • Regular visits to the cemetery, sometimes bringing flowers or singing lulabies
  • Planting and tending a special tree or rose bush
  • Inviting friends for a remembrance dinner and prayer time
  • Working at a children's camp, creating crafts that the deceased child would like
  • Donating items to the church nursery or children's ministries
  • Writing poetry
The story concludes with one of the children in Heaven praying at the same time as her brother still living on Earth. United, they thank God.

Nearly filling the pages, the illustrations match the text with softness and tranquility. They appear to be a combination of colored pencil and watercolor.

The author provides a number of wonderful resources at the back of the book. These include a large number of websites that offer additional books and/or support groups for families who have lost children in various stages of life or pregnancy. He has also quoted poems and prayers of encouragement and remembrance

What I Like: The tone is warm, loving and gentle. It's a comforting story that is sure to help those in the tides of grief. I like the ideas presented. I think it is important for families, especially children who have lost siblings, to feel free to express their grief in tangible ways. This book is a wonderful catalyst toward that end. I especially like all the resources and poems at the back of the book. They're absolutely beautiful!

What I Dislike: The illustrations do not look professional. Some parts offer great detail and technique, but other parts seem distorted and disproportional. Their inconsistencies and lack of quality greatly distract from the overall appeal of the book.

Overall Rating: Very Good.

Age Appeal: The publisher doesn't specify. I would say 3-10.

Publisher Info: Enheart Publishing, 2009; ISBN: 0965489981; Paperback; 48 pages; $12.99

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Special Info: The children in Heaven are pictured as angels . Most are wearing diapers and sit on floating clouds. All have wings.



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Sunday, June 13, 2010

Are You Sad, Little Bear?: A Book About Learning to Say Goodbye

Are You Sad, Little Bear?: A Book About Learning to Say Goodbye, written by Rachel Rivett and beautifully illustrated by Tina Macnaughton, follows a cub as he deals with the sadness he feels after his grandmother dies. He asks “Why can’t things always stay the same?” His mother encourages him to look for answers in the Wildwood. Little Bear visits various woodland creatures who are all saying goodbye to fall and preparing for winter. He expects them to feel sad. Instead, his friends seem content and peaceful. As Little Bear contemplates their views of saying goodbye, his own sadness becomes filled with wonder. The reader is left with a comforted feeling as the story closes.

What I Like: The illustrations are simply delightful. The story takes place in late fall, so the woods are ripe with bright colors. The time frame—fall fading into winter—serves as a nice parallel to the “seasons” in our lives. I also like how the author acknowledges Little Bear’s sadness but then helps him recognize our loved ones are going to a new home. One of my favorite lines is when Little Bear asks Sun if he is sad about leaving at the end of each day. The sun replies, “Is that how it seems, little one? No, I don’t die. When I set in your sky, I rise in another. Just because you can’t see me, it doesn’t mean I’m not there.” Because of its tender handling of the topic and rich illustrations, I think this book would make an excellent springboard to talk to a young child about death.

What I Dislike: First, the fact that Little Bear’s Grandmother died is not stated outright. Instead the author states, “Only the day before, Grandmother Bear had waved farewell. Then she had walked away for ever, as old bears do.” While I appreciate the gentle tone, it seems a little vague to me. Second, God is not mentioned in the story. The author only states, “And as he looked up at the host of sparkling starts in the heavens, he felt that his mother and his grandmother were also shining in the Great Heart that holds everything for always.” Again, sweetly said, but this might require some explaining by a parent.

Overall Rating: Very Good

Age Appeal: 3-6 years, although it might appeal to kids through age 8.

Publisher Info: Lion Children’s Books, 2010; ISBN 0825479045; hardcover picture book; $12.99

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Sunday, June 6, 2010

Friends Forever

The story Forever Friends, written by Mary Ann McRaney, opens with a terrified ten-year-old Cassie Bennett hiding in the darkness of her closet. With her alcoholic mother passed out on the couch and the strange man Mother brought home trying to break into Cassie’s locked bedroom, there seems to be nowhere else to go. And, since her father was killed in an accident, there also seems to be no one left to protect her either.

Unfortunately for Cassie, this situation is not new.

Worse, as bad as her home life has become, school is not much better. Since her mother is usually too drunk to do laundry or stock the refrigerator, Cassie arrives at class unkempt and hungry... which, in turn, makes her the target of bullies.

The one person Cassie can rely on is old Mr. Smits, who encourages her, sometimes feeds her, and often tells her about angels.

After spending one particularly harrowing night in the closet, Cassie remembers Mr. Smits' stories and cries out to God for help. The next day, a new student arrives in Cassie's classroom. Her name is Gabriella, or Gabby. Gabby is kind, uplifting, and, unbeknown to Cassie, a guardian angel. Gabby quickly befriends Cassie and, by offering words of wisdom and comfort, helps Cassie understand that no one is powerless against fear and evil. Gabby says, “...you have the power inside of you to conquer your fear. Fear will drive you to make wrong choices and keep you from being all you can be. It’s not God’s plan for his creation to be fearful and give in to evil. God wants you to stand up and let your light shine. You are here to be part of the goodness and light in this world. Don't let evil win."

The two girls soon discover that the man stalking Cassie is a pedophile. With newfound strength, Cassie alerts the police and saves a younger neighbor girl from the man.

Then, just as Cassie's life starts turning around, she is killed in a drunk driving accident. The story ends with Cassie's mom recovering in the hospital, Mr. Smits tending her, and Cassie in heaven meeting her dad.

What I Like: I liked the main message of the book: Let your light shine by helping others and by standing up to evil. I also liked the author's description of Heaven. Also, throughout the story, Gabby offers many nuggets of wisdom worth reading.

What I Dislike: Although the idea for the book was good, the writing was inconsistent. Sometimes it was choppy. Other times the prose wandered off topic, which took away the intensity of a passage. I was also distracted by a few spelling and numerous punctuation errors. Toward the end, the focus of the story seemed to abruptly switch from Cassie to her mother—a character with a storyline that had not been well developed and with whom the reader had invested little emotional interest. (In fact, Cassie died right when she started getting interesting.) Also, while the situations faced by middle school students held authenticity, since Gabby almost magically solved every problem, the solutions felt hollow. Finally, although the author explored the idea of guardian angels, the role of faith in God was not truly addressed.

Because of the somewhat frightening opening (a pedophile trying to break into a child's bedroom) and the delicate subject matter (alcoholism, child neglect, and death), I believe parents should preview the first chapter before deciding whether or not to let their child read the book.

Overall Rating: Ho-hum

Age Appeal: No reading level is given. The main character is 10 years old, but I feel the story would be better suited for children ages 12-14.

Publisher Info: Xulon Press, 2009; ISBN: 978-1-60791-361-0; Paperback, $ 14.99

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Special Info: While Gabby is in Heaven, the book describes God, Jesus, and archangels.


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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Mama's Going to Heaven Soon

Having a parent or other family member with a terminal illness can be a confusing time for a family, especially with young children. Those going through this situation get a helping hand with Mama's Going to Heaven Soon. Written by Kathe Copeland and illustrated by Elissa Hudson, this book is a great way to walk a child through the impending death of a loved one.

The situation is shown through the eyes of two children whose mother is dying of cancer. They recognize their mother is sick, and eventually their father sits them down to tell them their mom is dying and will be going to Heaven soon. Questions such as can the children go to Heaven too, and whether their mom still loves them are touched upon, and handled well in my estimation. The book also shows that it's okay to be sad when someone dies.

What I Like: I can see how this gentle book could help a child handle the loss of a loved one better. At the end of the book, there's a page of tips and recommendations for parents and caregivers to use with kids, which is adapted from Theresa M. Hunley's book Helping Children Grieve: When Someone They Love Dies.

What I Dislike: While God is mentioned, there is a lot of wiggle room for people of non-Christian faiths to use this book. I would like to see a stronger Christian message, but for its intended purpose, this is a great book.

Overall Rating: Very Good

Age Appeal: 9 - 12, but if this is a situation your family is dealing with, younger children would benefit from this book as well.

Publishing Info: Augsburg Books, 2005; ISBN: 0-8066-5122-9; Paperback $9.99

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Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Once Upon a Summer

Janette Oke, the well-known author of the Love Comes Softly series, also wrote Once Upon a Summer, the endearing tale of 12-year-old Josh, his Auntie Lou, and the three older men who raise them. Set in the Old West, Once Upon a Summer is the realistic story of a young boy questioning the faith of his fathers and learning what it means to believe in God for himself. Oke's likable characters provide down-home comfort, but the story has enough action and suspense to keep readers interested.

Although Auntie Lou is only six years older than Josh, she is the only mother he has ever known. When Grandpa and Uncle Charlie decide to marry her off, Josh's world begins to change. More changes are in store when Gramps moves all the way from out East to live with them, Josh acquires a dog, and the town preacher retires.

Josh wants Auntie Lou to be happy, but he doesn't like the idea of her married and living somewhere else. When Gramps arrives, he proves to be a powerful ally. He loves Auntie Lou, too, and he and Josh foil several of Grandpa and Uncle Charlie's matchmaking schemes. Gramps also knows how much Josh would like a dog. When Gramps brings home a puppy for Josh, he doesn't realize heartbreak is just around the corner. When the puppy is killed while Josh is at school, Josh decides he doesn't need God anymore. He is already angry with God for allowing his parents to be killed before he could have any memories of them, so after Patches dies, he decides to ignore God, despite Auntie Lou's protests.

Josh keeps busy between school, fishing, chores, and another puppy, but when the new preacher comes to town, Josh is forced to think about God again. The new preacher seems kind, but poor, so when he develops an interest in Auntie Lou, Grandpa and Uncle Charlie are less than enthusiastic. However, Preacher Crawford wins them over after he manages to save Josh's new puppy from being crushed and their farm from a dangerous wildfire.

In the end, Pastor Crawford shows Josh the reality of God's love and forgiveness, and Josh chooses to accept the love of Jesus. Auntie Lou is thrilled, and when she and the pastor get married, Josh gets to live with them.

What I Like: Oke does such a good job of showing us a young boy who is wrestling with his faith. Josh has had a rough life, and he questions why life is so unfair if God really loves him. Many readers will relate to these questions on some level or other, and Oke does such a good job of giving a gentle and wise response. Auntie Lou tells Josh she could make a box around her flowers, so bugs and hail couldn't hurt them, but then sun and rain couldn't reach them either and they wouldn't grow. She and the pastor both reassure Josh of God's love, without giving pat explanations. They admit they don't know why bad things happen, but they remain strong in their convictions that God loves us no matter what.

I also like the characterization. Oke's characters seem like real people, with different personalities and quirks. They are at times funny, serious, silly and strong-willed. I feel as if Gramps was my grandpa, and Auntie Lou a sister.

Oke also includes a fantastic episode where Auntie Lou explains to Josh she would never consider marrying one of the nicer men in town, because he doesn't go to church or know God. She speaks of the young man with utmost respect, and tells Josh she would never flirt with him because it would hurt his feelings. This is a great message for readers who are just beginning to be interested in members of the opposite sex.

What I Dislike: I am not a fan of books written in non-standard English. Oke conveys a Western feel by using words like "jest" for "just," "git" for "get," "purty" for "pretty," and so on. She also shortens all the "-ing" endings to "-in'." However, it didn't take me long to get used to the language and I enjoyed reading the book regardless.

Overall Rating: Excellent

Age Appeal:
9-12, but older teens would also enjoy it

Publisher Info: Bethany House, 2010; ISBN: 0764208004; Paperback, $13.99

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Special Info: Read our reviews of children's books by Janette Oke here.
This is a reprint edition-- the book was originally published in 1981.



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Wednesday, April 28, 2010

What's Gramma Doing in Heaven?

Cecilia's Gramma recently died. What's Gramma Doing in Heaven? is the story of a mother and daughter (Cecilia) visiting the grave of Cecilia's Gramma. It's written by Whitney Manse and illustrated by Kurt Jones.

Cecilia is curious what happened to Gramma. At Gramma's graveside, Mom shares that Gramma went to Heaven, and what she may be doing there: seeing friends and family, finding her mansion, and eating from the Tree of Life, among other things. Mom also says Gramma is in Heaven because she loved (and still loves) Jesus. Mom assures Cecilia they'll both get to see Gramma again someday since they love Jesus, and that's how you get to go to Heaven.

What I Like: The illustrations in this book are beautiful. They capture the story and what Cecilia and Mom discuss and, I think, helps demonstrate to a child the possibility of what Heaven may look like.

The story is heartwarming. I like the concept of Mom taking Cecilia to the graveside to not only place flowers, but also discuss the meaning of death, which isn't treated as a sad event - rather, a celebration.

What I Dislike: I'm very cognizant of the fact certain denominations think differently about Heaven and when one goes there. This book, while it has a list of scripture references at the back to support the story, may fail this particular litmus test for some readers since Gramma is portrayed as going to Heaven before the Second Coming.

Also, especially for younger readers, I thought seeing Cecilia's gramma as a young woman (as she's portrayed through all pages of the book save one) may be disconcerting for children who may not understand the concept of a "new body", which wasn't addressed in the book. Most children will probably be used to seeing a grandparent as older.

Overall Rating: Good

Age Appeal: 4 - 8 years.

Publishing Info: Tate Publishing, 2010; ISBN: 978-1-61566-852-6; Paperback $9.99

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Special Info: In addition to the denominational issue mentioned above, one image showed Jesus' face. He is portrayed as Caucasian.






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