Showing posts with label Manners. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Manners. Show all posts

Friday, February 26, 2016

God's Special Forces: A Manual for Becoming a Young Woman of Quality

Gods Special Forces: A Manual for Becoming a Young Woman of Quality by Darlene Laney is a workbook for teaching preteens the basics of hygiene, self care, and etiquette is a way that reminds them they have been created by God for a purpose.

Each chapter gives a brief Bible stud/ devotion and then dives into the specifics of practical advice. The chapters are titled:

  • A New Look
  • The Beginning
  • Face Facts
  • Value of a Woman
  • Standing, Sitting & Walking
  • Care of Self
  • Skin Care
  • Body Care
  • Etiquette 101
  • Accentuate the Positive
  • Putting It All Together
  • Last Word
  • I'm Committed
At the end of the workbook, girls are encouraged to sign a commitment that they are going to apply the lessons and principles they have learned in this book.


What I Like: Growing up, I had a little book that I read and reread about character and beauty. This book has the possibility of being that for my daughter. It teaches girls how to beautiful from the inside out. After teaching girls that God has created them for a special purpose, it shows them what hairstyle suits their facial structure best, how to eat specific foods when in a group setting, and how to greet people they are meeting for the first time.

What I Dislike: I loved everything about this book.

Overall Rating: Excellent

Age Appeal: 8-14-year-olds

Publisher Info: Halo Publishing International, 2013; ISBN: 978-1-61244-126-9 ; paperback, 120 pgs., $16.95

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Saturday, February 16, 2013

God's Biggest Treasures

Little Katie loves being out in God's Creation. When Grandpa sends her a magnifying glass in God's Biggest Treasures by Melissa Alani, she gets the opportunity to observe creation up close.

Upon receiving the magnifying glass, Katie quickly discovers everything that looked small before now looks much bigger. First, she spies a caterpillar spinning a cocoon and thinks it's gross, but then she remembers a butterfly will emerge from the the cocoon, and realizes the caterpillar is creating its own treasure. Next, she spies an acorn sprouting into an oak tree, then a heart-shaped rock, and finally a tadpole that will soon change into a frog.

Then Katie races into her house where she sits down and writes a thank you note to her grandpa, telling him all about the small treasures she found with his gift.

What I Like: Pretty much everything in this book is great! I loved the bright images, the fact Katie is playing outside when she discovers the package, and her wonderful curiosity. But the most commendable part, in my opinion, is that she sat down to write a thank you note. What a great way to teach manners to our kids - by letting them observe a great character like Katie being grateful for her gift. While the Christian content is present, it's very subtle since the story is more about observing nature.

What I Dislike: Not so much a dislike, but just something I noticed. In one image, Katie is pictured writing to her grandpa with her left hand. In the next, she's writing on her rock with her right hand. Who knows, maybe she's ambidextrous.

Overall Rating: Excellent.

Age Appeal: 5 - 8

Publisher Info: Tate Publishing, 2011; ISBN: 978-1-61346-677-3; Paperback, 24 pgs., $8.99

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Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Good Manners for a Little Warrior

Good Manners for a Little Warrior takes knight training to a new level. Good knights don't just understand honor and courage; they also understand that manners matter.

Continuing the series, author Kelly Chapman maintains a consistent format with the first book. During a baseball game, Luke gets knocked out cold. His slumber sparks another dream of he and his buddies attending Warrior Prince Academy with Sir Britmore. As the boys journey through different challenges within their royal drills, they discover four levels of manners and how each contributes to being a good knight.
  1. Power Words: Phrases like please, thank you, I'm sorry, excuse me, your welcome, yes, ma'am and yes, sir
  2. Code of Honor: This includes -- first and foremost -- loving God and loving others. Knights exhibit this, for example, by making eye contact, being respectful, taking turns, sharing and speaking truthfully.
  3. Table Manners: The knights-in-training learned about appropriate behavior at dinner and how to properly set the table and use the utensils provided.
  4. Sportsmanship: It's not all about winning the game! Wise knights follow the coach's directions, play fair, encourage teammates and treat their opponents with respect.
Of course, Luke wakes at the end of the book excited to share all he has learned with all of his friends.

Readers will find a "Whiz Kid Manners Quiz" at the back of the book along with a "What Do Jesters Do?" poem reinforcing the main points of the text.

The illustrations by Jeff Ebbeler feature bold colors, exaggerated characters and lots of action and expression.

What I Like: It's great to have a book for boys that talks about proper manners! This one goes beyond the basics of "power words" to include character traits as well. This encourages a spiritual connection between faith and actions. I also like that the text is divided into chapters. Even though the book is small, it holds a lot of information. I liked having good stopping points where we could pick it up again later. Both my son (age 6) and my daughter (age 8) found this book attractive.

What I Dislike: Nothing, really. But I do wonder how many families still set the table with multiple forks. Aside from weddings, I don't know when my kids would need that information or encounter that situation.
Overall Rating: Very Good.
Age Appeal: 3-8
Publisher Info: Harvest House Publishers, 2011; ISBN: 0736937242; Hardback; 32 pages; $12.99
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Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Good Manners for a Little Princess

There are a lot of children's books on manners available today - even a number from Christian publishing houses. But none incorporates a Christian worldview as well as Kelly Chapman's Good Manners for a Little Princess. A spin off of Chapman's Princess with a Purpose, we meet all the same characters, but this time Caroline learns a different lesson: How to have manner's like God's princesses should.
The story begins with a class where the girls sit down to eat, but argue over the food, grab food across the table, bubble their pink tea, talk with their mouths full, and so on. When Caroline falls off a chair because she's not sitting properly in it, she has a dream of a fancy princess manners lesson where she learns the Bible talks a lot about manners and that The Golden Rule is the most important bit of etiquette she can know.
Miss Lily, the teacher, provides specific examples of what The Golden Rule looks like in life. For example, a Golden Rule Keeper loves others, while a Golden Rule Breaker thinks of herself first. Grace, courtesy, and and kindness are emphasized. The girls also learn a little bit about setting the table and dance the "Tutu Trot" to remember some mannerly basics (like "before you eat, say a prayer" and "cover when you sneeze").
The last page of the book has a short, fun quiz for girls to test their manners.
What I Like: My 6 year old actually found this book interesting; any other book on the topic seems to bore her. The illustrations by Tammie Lyon are also well executed and provide lots of interest. Most of all, however, I appreciate how well Christian principles are applied to manners; only by pointing to The Golden Rule can we even explain why manners are even necessary.
What I Dislike: It seems as though the author wrote this story to be a full sized book, but the publisher chose to make it a smaller one. It measures about 7 x 7 inches, which means the text is in a relatively small type and rather dense on each page.
Overall Rating: Very good.
Age Appeal: 4 - 8.
Publishing Info: Harvest House, 2011; ISBN: 978-0736937238; hardback, 32 pgs., $12.99.
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Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Good Table Manners for Little Monkeys


Good Table Manners for Little Monkeys by Susie Lee Jin is a cute introduction to eating at the "adult's table."

This small (a little over 5 x 5 inches) board book is filled with silly, cute monkeys showing what good (and bad!) table manners are. The text is super-simple, making it ideal for babies and toddlers. First, the author writes, we should wash our hands, then sit up straight in our chairs. Other important manners include not having toys or elbows on the table, saying grace, putting napkins around our necks or on our laps, using utensils properly, not talking with our mouths full, chewing with our mouths closed, not slurping, trying not to burp (but "if you do, just say 'Excuse me.'"), and cleaning up after everyone's done.

What I Like: The illustrations make this book super-appealing to young children. The kids I read this to laughed their way through the pages, saying how silly one monkey was for wearing a spoon on his nose, and how naughty another was for sneaking food during grace. This sort of humor makes learning manners a lot more fun - and a lot more memorable.

What I Dislike: Although the text clearly delineates what good behavior is, if you have a child who takes naughty behavior shown in books and explores it in real life, this may not be the best book for you.

Overall Rating: Very good.

Age Appeal: According to the publisher, 4 to 8, I think this book is most appropriate for infants to preschoolers.

Publisher Info: Harvest House Publishers, 2009; ISBN: 0736924809; board book; $5.99

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Monday, January 12, 2009

A Little Hero in the Making


Following up on her book of manners for girls, A Little Princess in the Making, Emilie Barnes also offers A Little Hero in the Making, just for boys.

Drawing on the desire of some young boys to emulate comic book, sports, and other types of heroes, Barnes begins by saying:

"So are you ready to become a real-world hero? Got your cape tied on? Ready to become a little hero 'in the making'? Great! Let's get ready to fly...and master those manners!"

Every four pages then explores a different set of manners: helping at home (including using words like "please," "thank you," "excuse me," and "I'm sorry"), being a good playmate, meeting new people out in the world, hygiene, table manners, and having a brave heart.

For example, in the chapter on meeting new people, Barnes writes:

"Sometimes when you're out exploring your world, you might meet someone who looks or acts a little different. But inside, they are just the same as you. They deserve a hero's friendship, too!
The best thing to do when you meet anyone new is to smile at them and say 'hello.' You can shake their hand - that's a very grown-up thing to do...Heroes also show kindness to others by calling them what they would like to be called - Mr. Lawnmower or Mrs. Snapdragon or Dr. Sniffle. That shows kindness and respect - and it's very brave of you."

What I Like: I appreciate that Barnes is trying to instill manners in boys in a fun way. Michal Sparks' watercolor illustrations are charming, showing boys playing sports, wearing red capes, and wearing armor. I especially like the comic books pages in the book, showing young boys doing "heroic" (that is, polite) things.

What I Dislike: Barnes has taken the meat from A Little Princess in the Making and put a superficial slant of heroism on it. In other words, while Barnes did a great job of interweaving princess-like things in her book for girls, she does a poor job of making manners make sense with heroism. I also wish she'd more often cited scripture; she really does so only once, when she quotes the Golden Rule (but doesn't tell us it comes from the Bible). Sparks' comic book pages do a much better job of putting forth good manners in a way that appeals to boys; too bad there are only three pages of those comics in this book.

Overall Rating: Good.

Age Appeal: 4 - 8

Publisher Info: Harvest House, 2007; ISBN: 0736919783; hardback; $14.99

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Thursday, January 8, 2009

A Little Princess in the Making


If you have a daughter whose swept up in the princess craze, A Little Princess in the Making by Emilie Barnes may be just the book to help teach her good manners.
The book begins by introducing a young girl who calls herself a princess. "Would you like to start your princess training with me?" she asks. Then, every four pages features one attribute: caring for the "castle," being a good friend, meeting strangers and traveling through the kingdom with good manners, being pretty on the inside and the outside, dining, and having a grateful heart. In a conversational manner, our young princess explains the best way to behave, often reminding us what God desires of us in these areas. For example, when discussing caring for the "castle," she says:
"When I'm at home in my castle, I have lots of chances to use the magic kingdom words. I say these words when I need something or when someone does something nice for me or when I do something wrong. (Even princesses goof up sometimes!) And these magic words always work! They make me feel happy, and they make everyone around me feel happy, too. Are you ready to learn them? Here they are -
Please
Thank you
Excuse me
I'm sorry
...And did you know that every princess has a special rule she follows? It even has a royal-sounding name! It's called the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

What I Like: Barnes makes learning good manners fun by incorporating playtime activities many girls enjoy, like tea parties and playing princess. Michal Sparks' watercolor illustrations show lots of fun costumes, and the last two pages of the book are actually paper dolls. (If you don't want to cut up the book, you could easily make color copies of these pages.)
What I Dislike: While the author does a pretty good job of bringing up biblical principles where appropriate, I wish she'd included Bible references and quotes, too. And although the Golden Rule is mentioned a few times, the author never explains that it comes from the Bible. Too, all the girls in this book are conspicuously Caucasian (although I do appreciate that they have healthy figures).
Overall Rating: I've hemmed and hawed whether to give this book a "Good" or "Very Good" review. For my daughter and me, it's somewhere in-between. She likes princess things only somewhat. If your child adores princesses, however, this is probably an ideal book for her.
Age Appeal: 4 - 8
Publisher Info: Harvest House, 2007; ISBN: 0736918558; hardback; $14.99
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Special Info: Some parents will be put off by the mention of "magic" words in this book, as quoted above. Also, there is a boy's version of this book: A Little Hero in the Making."

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Sophie and Sam

Sophie and Sam is written by Tori Cloud and based on her husband’s million-plus-selling book, Boundaries (written by Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend).

Sophie and Sam are siblings learning when to say “Yes” and when to say “No.” The book is divided into several stories following these two mice and their friends. Told in rhyming verse, all the stories are easily relatable to children. Bible verses are given at the end of each chapter to reinforce the lessons learned. Here is a list of the chapters:

Say YES to Respect
Say NO to Arguing
Say YES to Thanking God
Say YES to Telling the Truth
Say YES to Sharing
Say NO to Whining
Say YES to Clean-up
Say NO to Meanies
Say YES to Following the Rules
Say YES to Manners

The illustrations by Becky Valentine are adorable. The characters are personal and emotion-filled. The colors are mostly pastel.

What I Like: Seldom does one book cover so many important topics! I like following the same characters as they encounter different situations. I also like that the stories are short, perfect for early readers or quick reminders in the middle of the day. My daughter loves this book; she will have me read several stories in one sitting.

What I Dislike: The rhyming is not perfect. Some spots are stretched or disjointed. Also, the conclusions come quickly. The author does a great job setting up the problem, but ends it in “Brady Bunch” fashion: everything tied up with very little explanation of why or how. I know we’re reading about mice, but I would prefer a more realistic ending to some of the stories.

Overall Rating: Good.

Age Appeal: 4-8

Publisher Info: Thomas Nelson, 2006; ISBN: 1591452996; Hardback; $14.99

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Thursday, April 12, 2007

Top 15 Favorite Books of Christine's Children


It’s been a while since my children were little (the youngest is now 12!), but I remember the stories we used to read to them. We had tons of books in the house because my husband and I both love to read and we wanted to pass on that desire to our children. However, we weren’t reading Christian children’s picture books in our home at that time, so this list doesn’t include any Christian literature. But, many of the books, like the Berenstain Bears and Little Critter series, taught family and social values.

My children were great fans of the Berenstain Bear books, written and illustrated by Jan and Stan Berenstain. My youngest still reads them. I think we owned a copy of every book that was written while they were little (we still have every copy, too!) In The Berenstain Bears Count Their Blessings, the Bear children, Brother and Sister, complain every time their friends and cousins get something new and they don’t. They can’t see how blessed they already have. You know how that goes! During a scary thunderstorm, Brother and Sister Bear learn that their home, and the love of their parents, is worth more than anything in this world.

The Berenstain Bears and Too Much Vacation, tells the story of the Berenstain Bears on a disasterous vacation. Their cabin roof leaks, their boat won’t float, and the mosquitoes are big enough to carry them away. But, they take photos of everything that goes wrong, anyway. After the photos are developed, they laugh themselves silly enjoying the worst vacation they ever had! My kids loved this book as the vacation scenes are hilarious. Jan and Stan Berenstain made the camera a very prominent and very funny part of this story. We read this delightful book many, many times!

In The Berenstain Bears and too Much TV, Mama Bear decides her family spends way too much time in front of the TV. She declares the TV off limits for one week. At first, Brother, Sister and Papa Bear gripe and complain because there’s nothing else to do. But, Brother rediscovers his love for soccer, Sister gets great pleasure from riding her bike, and Papa rediscovers fishing. They have so much fun without the TV, when Mama says they can watch it again, they don’t even want to! This is a great book for teaching children there is more to life than watching TV. Even though my children were great fans of TV (and still are), they enjoyed reading this book and having it read to them.

Mama Bears becomes frustrated with her family’s manners, or lack of them, in The Berenstain Bears Forget Their Manners. She comes up with a Politeness Plan – a chart listing a chore for each act of rudeness. The whole Bear family learns how to treat each other politely (and some extra chores get done in the process). Basic etiquette is presented in an easy-to-teach manner.

My children were also great fans of the Little Critter books by Mercer Mayer. One of them was Just Me & My Dad. Little Critter goes on a camping trip with his dad. Little Critter tries to help, but he keeps making mistakes. Somehow, father and son manage to put up a tent and catch enough fish to eat for dinner. This is a great book for illustrating the special relationship that exists between fathers and sons and was one of my son’s favorite books.

I Just Forgot, also by Mercer Mayer, was another favorite Little Critter book. Little Critter, like most youngsters, has a hard time remembering what he has to do. He remembers to take his raincoat when it rains, but he forgets to wear his boots. He remembers to take a bath, but he forgets to use soap! He manages to get to school on time but forgets to take his lunch with him. He tries so hard, but he finds it difficult to remember everything. My children, like every child, could relate to a character like Little Critter.

Dr. Seuss was (and still is) another one of our favorite writers. We still own lots of his books. We (my husband and I) used to dread it when the kids asked us to read Fox in Socks, though. If you’ve ever tried reading it out loud, you’ll know why. It is filled with some murderous, but hilarious, tongue twisters. If you can get through this book, I guarantee your children will love it, like mine did!

Another Dr. Seuss favorite, The Cat in the Hat, was read many times over at our house. The famous Cat in the Hat causes troubles for Dick and Sally, as they are stuck inside on a rainy day. Dr. Seuss makes the story memorable with his outrageous characters and rhyming text. This is another one of those books that was read over and over again!

The Butter Battle Book (another by Dr. Seuss) tells the story of the battle between the Yooks, who eat their bread with the butter side up, and the Yooks, who dare to eat their bread with the butter side down. A border dispute between the two groups turns into a one-up-man-ship contest over which side can come up with the craziest and most expensive weapon. Dr. Seuss delights with his usual assortment of zany characters and contraptions, while emphasizing how silly it is to fight over such trivial things.

The classic tale, Where the Wild Things Are, written and illustrated by Maurice Sendak, became another favorite. The main character, Max, puts on a wolf suit and causes trouble in his house. He is sent to bed, angry, without any supper. In his imagination, his room is transformed into a forest, where Max can act out his anger and frustrations without getting into more trouble. Although he goes on a wild adventure, he learns that home isn’t such a bad place to be.

In One Kitten for Kim, written by Adelaide Holl and illustrated by Don Madden, Kim’s cat has seven kittens. He is allowed to keep one kitten but must give the rest of them away. He loads them into a wagon and goes around the neighborhood giving the kittens to friends and neighbors. Only trouble is, instead of just giving the kittens away, he trades them for other animals. He ends up with two goldfish, a parrot, a puppy, a rooster, and a lizard! My daughter loved this book as she always wanted to keep every small animal she ever saw!

So Sick, written by Harriet Ziefert and illustrated by Carol Nicklaus, is an easy-to-read book with three short chapters. In the first chapter, Lewis is “so sick” he goes to bed to take a nap. In Chapter Two he feels better and plays doctor with his friend, Angel. In the last chapter, during snack time, Angel eats too many cookies and then feels “so sick.” This was one of my daughter’s favorite books to read “by herself.” I think she had it memorized in a very short time!

If you’ve ever read the book, Corduroy, written and illustrated by Don Freeman, you’ll know why my children loved this story. Corduroy is a stuffed bear in a big department store. He stands on a shelf all day, watching shoppers go by. One day, a little girl finds him and tells her mother, “That’s the very bear I’ve always wanted.” Her mother doesn’t let her buy it. Corduroy “wakes up” that night after the store is closed, climbs down from his display shelf, and wanders around the store, thinking it’s a big palace. The security guard finds him and puts him back on the shelf. The next day, the little girl comes back to the store, pays for him and takes him home. Corduroy finally gets the home he "knew he always wanted."

Stellaluna, written and illustrated by Janell Cannon, was another one of my daughter’s favorite books. Stellaluna is a beautiful story of a baby fruit bat who gets knocked out her mother’s embrace by an attacking owl. She lands in a bird’s nest, where she is adopted by the mother bird. Although she is well-cared for, her world is turned around as now she must sleep at night with her head up (instead of up-side down during the day), and she is fed insects (instead of fruit), which she strongly dislikes. When she finally learns to fly, she is reunited with her mother. Janell Cannon offers just the right blend of fact (about how bats and birds behave) and fiction.

How could I leave out Curious George? Curious George was a favorite of mine when I was little. I was so glad to be able to share the adventures of this funny little monkey with my children. Curious George Goes to the Circus, by Margaret and H. A. Rey, was just one of his many adventures. Of course, Curious George gets in trouble at the circus, going behind the curtains, climbing ropes, etc. But, The Man in the Yellow Hat always comes to his rescue.

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

Peas and Thank You

Peas and Thank You is just one of Zondervan's many VeggieTale books. Written in rhyme by Mike Nawrocki, the goal of this little volume is to teach kids that politeness matters. To make this point, we're introduced to "the Peas" and "the Beans." The Peas are polite, cheerful folk, while the Beans are grumpy and rude. We see that the Peas and the Beans often interact, but the difference in attitude between the two is especially notable on April 27th, when the sunflowers sprout. The Peas and Beans picnic on this day and then collect sunflower seeds. The Beans gripe and steal each other's seeds, while the Peas "take turns and thank one another." In the end, the Peas have huge bucketfuls of seeds, while the Beans have only managed to gather a meager collection.

And what makes this a Christian book? Other than the fact that it's published by a Christian house and includes VeggieTale vegetables, it may be hard to answer that...Until you look at the back cover, where 1 Peter 2:17 is quoted: "Show proper respect to everyone."

What I Like: This is a fun, not-preachy book that encourages the use of "please" and "thank you." As a bonus, the tale emphasizes that being polite is a win-win situation. The illustrations by Greg Hardin and Robert Bann have the classic, colorful VeggieTale look.

What I Dislike: Sometimes the meter seems a bit off on the rhymes, but after a second reading, I found my tongue tripping over the text quite easily. I also wish that 1 Peter 2:17 were included directly in the story, bringing some true biblical content to this board book.

As an aside, one reviewer at Amazon.com complains that this book encourages racism because there is a group "that live on the 'other side of the tracks', who a) all look different, b) are uniformly all rude, and c)steal from each other, and in the end they can't provide for themselves. They're generally 'bad' people, with no exceptions, whereas all the pea folk are all good."

While I appreciate this concern, I don't feel Peas and Thank You really fits the reviewer's description. Yes, the Peas and the Beans live in different neighborhoods, but we see that as fellow legumes they live fairly peacefully with each other. (We also see that the Peas are friendly with the Beans, despite their rude behavior.) And, this being a children's tale, it's not surprising that it's in black and white, with no shades of gray included for rude Peas or polite Beans. But there's absolutely nothing in this book that encourages children to not interact with people like the Beans, or to look down on them, or to speak ill of them, etc. Other than politeness, there is nothing in this book that says one group is different, and therefore "less" than the other.

If parents are concerned about underlying messages which they perceive in the story, then this book is an excellent way to start a discussion about those concerns.

Overall Rating: Very Good.

Age Appeal: 1 - 6.

Publishing Info: Zondervan, 2003; ISBN 0310705401; board book; $4.99

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